Many parents see arguing, refusing, and resistance as simple defiance. However, oppositional behavior in children is often communication. Learn how looking beneath the behavior can help you better understand and support your child.
“When children say ‘I’m terrible at math’ or ‘Nobody likes me,’ our instinct is often to reassure them. But raising an optimistic child isn’t about positive thinking. It’s about teaching children to recognize thinking traps, look at situations more accurately, and figure out what they can do next.”
Do you feel like you’re constantly repeating yourself? Discover why kids tune parents out and learn simple ways to encourage listening without yelling, nagging, or power struggles.