When praising children we should avoid using evaluative praise, “good boy”, good job” or “your the best.”
We should use descriptive praise, which has 3 components:
1. Describe what you see
2. Describe how it made you feel
3. Sum up the behavior in a word
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Adapted From:
Faber, A., Mazlish, E. (1999). How To Talk So Kids Will Listen. NY: Harper Collins.
Faber, A., Anstine Templeton, R., Mazlish, E., Nyberg, L. (1996). How To Talk So Kids Can Learn At Home and In School. NY: Simon Schuster.
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Could you give an example for this and other tips?