After answering this Mom’s question (see here for the article: Simple Parenting: The Real Key To Helping Kids Listen)- I got the following response:
Thank you so much! Things seem to have gotten much better with a little structure. I put the expectation that we had certain things to accomplish and the kids met our family goals. We just had so much going on and I was expecting “good behavior” without specifying the necessary steps to get it! Or, when I did specify those steps, the kids were already on their way to wild, and could not calm down effectively. Now, we are starting the day with articulating the goals, and once the kids have met them, they get more freedom and lots and lots of positive recognition. Are things perfect? No. But neither am I. And I certainly don’t expect my kids to be! 🙂
I appreciate your assistance and willingness to help! thank you so much!!!!!
I am so happy when I get letters like this.
I particularly love this sentiment:
“Are things perfect? No. But neither am I. And I certainly don’t expect my kids to be! :)”
I think we should adopt this basic principle. I guarantee if we can do that we would all be a lot happier!