Assign Positive Intent: More On How To Handle Sibling Rivalry

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</html><description>Parents are always looking for encouragement on how to manage sibling rivalry. In a recent post we spoke about how important it is to &#x201C;look for the good&#x201D; in your children&#x2019;s seemingly annoying interactions. We can take this one step further. Becky Bailey in her book, &#x201C;Easy To Love, Difficult to Discipline&#x201D; encourages parents to [&hellip;]</description></oembed>